The belly love boat went on a lovely world cruise today, thanks to a whole bunch of delicious romantics who shared their ideas for food and love with Sister T (captain T for today) and Sister B, on a special valentine edition of belly. We have talked a lot about romantic meals in the past, this time we wanted to hear your ideas. Luckily Sister B has a new friend called David who teaches at the Byron Bay English language school. His students come from all over the world, and many know just how to be romantic, on Valentine Day or at any other time. So much so that we think the school may have to hire security guards now. Thank you very much to David (who is not advertising he says, but did mention he is single although I did not ask), Kim Yong Kyu from Korea, Dimitri from France, Carlos from Spain,Nawaf from Saudi Arabia, Marta from Catalunia, Ilona from Switzerland, Luca from Brazil, Kyoko from Japan, and Ashley from Korea. And a couple of others that I couldn’t play because of technical difficulties (radio term for ‘not pushing the right buttons’ ).
I also managed to find a few local romantics in the Brunswick Heads monthly market, a lovely smallish one held on the shores of the Brunswick river, not far from the beach. Some good veggies and fruit too, not easy at the moment. A drummer even improvised a whole riff on love and food. But it was hard to find people who would admit to planning a romantic or seductive meal. So sad! Even if you boycott Valentine’s Day and all its rampant commercialism, it really doesn’t take much to surprise someone occasionally. As one woman said: “stick a candle in it and it’s romantic”. A takeaway pizza with a candle in it is better than nothing! Or a delicious picnic, pre-packed from your local deli.
A few tips from around the world:
Candles candles candles, chocolate, seafood especially lobster, strawberries, more chocolate and other sweet things, bubbles, the best you can afford – yes you’ve heard it before, but most people love them, from Mullumbimby to Montevideo.
If you are in a cold place, a cheese fondue in front of the fire – voted most romantic by 2 out of 2 Swiss women interviewed
If you are in a warm place – the beach, the outdoors, or somewhere beautiful – setting the scene is important
If you happen to live in the desert and your father owns a lot of camels, a camel ride in the moonlight works well
Women love a man who cooks, and everyone who cooks all the time loves not cooking occasionally
If you don’t have a sexy foreign accent, pretend
Expensive ingredients like lobster work because your loved one can see you are making an effort, but then cook them very simply and lightly. And btw lobster is relatively affordable in Australia this year
Most food is sexier eaten with the hands (ok maybe not soup), even spaghetti says Sharna
If you are in the Byron area and want to cover a naked someone in something delicious, go locally grown : macadamia paste not melted chocolate
AND FROM ROMANTIC BAYFM MONDAY PRESENTERS
Anna, Pregnancy Birth and Beyond :
I’m a fine wine and chocolate girl……..followed up by my husband on a plate! Ha!………the intensity of passion calls for light eating………which means to me of mouth watering morsels of delicious salads, exquisite tasting delicacies like marinated prawns, seafood or fish……………….I’m such a romantic!
Cruizy :
umm seductive meal ….
I’d keep it simple …….
I’d start with champagne
BBQ banana prawns & scallops on a bed of oshitashi
(steamed spinach, with a soy and lemon dressing, dash of wasabi on side)
Mains would be lobster with virgin olive oil, lemon juice and some home
dried tomatoes and a mango and pinenut leafy salad.
Dessert would be lashings of strawberries with a dark chocolate and ginger
dipping sauce and a delicious chilled sauterne
The bellysisters just love Cruisy’s idea of simple – go girl!
EASY VALENTINE : THE BELLYSISTERS RECOMMEND
Melt chocolate slowly and cover pieces of fruit in season (not many strawberries sorry – but bananas, lychees, pears, much more)
Serve as individual pieces or make kebabs
Add more or less cream as you melt the chocolate depending on whether you’d like it hard or soft, maybe alcohol
Marinate fruit in season in a little spirit, cook pears in wine
Or make a slit in a Cavendish (not lady finger) banana skin and add rhum, cook in a dry pan or oven until soft, eat warm
EDIBLE QUOTES
We had to go for the love poetry book today of course
From “A POMEGRANATE” By Diodoros Zonas, About 100 BC
These are the gifts for Priapus, the god of love – well …of sex really
“A pomegranate just splitting, a peach just furry,
a fig with wrinkled flesh and juicy bottom,
a purple cluster (thick-berried well of wine),
nuts just skinned from their green peelings…”
And the full text of a gorgeous Pablo Neruda poem :
DRUNK AS DRUNK
“Drunk as drunk on turpentine
From your open kisses,
Your wet body wedged
Between my wet body and the strake
Of our boat that is made out of flowers,
Feasted, we guide it – our fingers
Like tallows adorned with yellow metal –
Over the sky’s hot rim,
The day’s last breath in our sails.
Pinned by the sun between solstice
And equinox, drowsy and tangled together
We drifted for months and woke
With the bitter taste of land on our lips,
Eyelids all sticky, and we longed for lime –
And the sound of a rope
Lowering a bucket down its well. Then
We came by night to the Fortunate Isles,
And lay like fish
Under the net of our kisses.”
And if you recite this poem by candlelight, you probably don’t even need food….until afterwards.
Love and chocolate paint,
Sister T
MUSIC
The Love Boat theme
Bebel Gilberto, Summer Samba (So Nice), remixed by Mario Caldato Jr, from Tanto tempo remixes
Serge Gainbourg, La recette de l’Amour Fou
Asilah Island, Halim Love, from Bar Vista:Arabic
The Cruel Sea, Let’s lay down Here and Make Love
Joaquim Rodrigo, Tonadilla, allegro ma non troppo, Turibio Santos and Claudio Scimone on Spanish guitar
Diana Ross and the Supremes, The Look of Love
Positive Black Soul, Wooyuma